A recent poll of 100 men, indicated that, 35% of the men polled were — or have been, jealous, intimidated, or insulted — by a partner’s request or use of “toy-play”, in the bedroom.
When asked why; The response that the thought of the query or blatant use and action of “toy-play” was just to taboo for Man-land.
The survey taker’s insinuated that — “It is in indirect insult to the size, effectiveness, and over all satisfaction, of their “equipment”.
OUCH ego crusher? or Help with your lover? Though every man who took part had a slightly different way of portraying his distaste for The Bedroom-Battery-Buddy, one truth remained TRUE — Most feel that they are just “Not enough”.
Top 5 irrational insecurities
- The women in question — are DISSATISFIED on some level.
- That the toy in question is either a replacement, or “the something missing”.
- That she will be able to satisfy herself better than he can.
- That he is packing less than heat in his “nether-regions”…..
- In the more severe of the irrationality — some guys even believe ” that toy-play ” is — The beginning of the end.
“WOMAN’S VIEW” — as to why that is absurd………. or not….
- The woman is merely trying to spice things up — where-by, keeping YOU interested…..
- She is genuinely trying to alleviate some of the “pressure” you may feel to satisfy her — thus making your job easier and more enjoyable.
- In “some” cases woman stated — “that their sex drive is much higher than her other half, by filling her “excess need” — you can relax, and NOT feel as if you are slacking or not fully satisfying her.
- “IF” she was not happy or content with the “hardware” — she would have fired you, and begun shopping for a more “adequate upgrade” — let’s just say she adopted Home Depots motto of, “You can do it, we can help”.
- An (inside secret) admitted by 25% of woman polled said they felt — “inferior or inexperienced” — when compared to their partner. By learning what excites them — solo or with you, they feel a bit more confident in their “abilities and super-sexy-sheet-skills”. Be happy and perhaps a bit grateful she cares that much….. She’s a keeper…..
What is the consensus here?
TALK TO EACH OTHER…. Honesty really is the best policy. He’s thinking one thing — you’re thinking another — and the truth and solution lie somewhere in the middle of BOTH of your truths……. FIND IT or BUZZ OFF.